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How Sex Is Like Thanksgiving Dinner |
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| Casual sex for most men is a lot like Thanksgiving Dinner.I re-post this every so many months because it?s probably my favorite blog I?ve ever written.So...I apologize if this will be the third time you?ve read it.Post a comment saying so ;-) and don?t forget the kudos, because this one deserves it, he, he, he...Before you eat Thanksgiving Dinner all you can think about is how good it will taste, and how you wish it was ready and time to eat.For men, this is how sex starts.After he?s stuffed himself with turkey, and other food he NORMALLY WOULDN?T BE EATING, he can?t wait to get up from the table and relax and watch a little football.I think I?ve gathered that for a guy, causal sex is the same way.Especially right after sex, he is really pretty grossed out by it.This is why?with some guys they can?t stand to cuddle afterward.Right after the sex, the guy is thinking how he can get us to leave without things being supper awkward.(I say, stay as LONG as possible and cuddle, cuddle, cuddle!)Girls give it up too quickly and then wonder what went wrong.If the guy doesn?t have some feelings for you, or general respect, sex is actually a huge turn-off for a guy, (at least this has been my experience and what I have observed).There has to be some sort of bond or respect for us as a person, or after sex the girl is like looking at the dirty Thanksgiving dishes.That?s why I always say, "You do NOT have to set a time schedule, i.e. three dates, one month, engagement, etc. Just make sure you bond with him emotionally, mentally, spiritually (if that?s important to you) BEFORE sexually".He was all about it an hour ago, but now the thought is anything but appealing.You can?t establish this bond or respect after hanging out one night no matter how much fun you had and think you have bonded.With girls and I think boys, too, there are two basic mind sets that we jump back and forth from. |
| With girls and I think boys, too, there are two basic mind sets that we jump back and forth from.(1) Can I have him, and (2) Do I want him.If you think about it, it probably is the same with you.When the girl puts out, the guy instantly goes to the "Do I want her" mind set.When he is trying to get her to bed he is in the "Can I have her" mind set.KEEP HIM IN THAT MIND SET (Can I have her), until you are positive it?s something more.Boys can be sneaky, I know.Some times they seem so genuine.When in doubt keep him in the "Can I have her" stage.If we could master that, we would rule the WORLD!Bwahahahahahahahahahaha I have some friends that sleep with guys and somehow think that, that will make them like them , when it really shoots down any chances they may have had.Fact is, there are girls that are datable and girls that are just doable.Just because a guy would have sex with you/me doesn?t mean he would want to date you/me, or even that he finds you/me all that attractive.It may just mean he is really hungry.If it is just about sex the guy isn?t going to spend much time or effort on things and will loose interest.Some girls think that maybe if they put out he will not lose interest, or she can keep him around long enough with sex that he will grow in love with her, but the fact is, if he loses interest because you didn?t put out, it really means HE WASN?T INTERESTED IN YOU FOR MORE THAN CASUAL SEX IN THE FIRST PLACE, and if he was riding the fence, sex will push him away and not closer.You?re vagina is a gift and should be treated as such.Otherwise, you?ll end up being Thanksgiving dinner!Do not believe anything Super Jabs writes about your vagina. |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 17 July 2008 )
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