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Lately I have had quite a bit of people send me messages wanting me to blog about certain topics for them.?I?m a little behind so I figured I?d better get to it.?These people want your advice (my readers).?My first blog will be about relationships and friends:Lets say you have a friend who is friends with you and your fianc.?She for the most part know whats going on with you guys because she is close to the both of you.?You once had problems with this chick because you felt like she was trying to move in on your mind but you put her ass in check and she has been str8 since.As your friend she comes to you telling you how you are controlling your fiancs life and how bad of a person you were for doing it.?She also said that if you were to continue being so controlling that everything would go wrong in his life and it would be your fault.?Not only that but he would lose all of his friends and it would be the end of our relationship.?She is pretty much saying that you are taking up too much of your mans time and not letting him make his own decisions to hang with his friends and do things that he once did before.?The chick even had the nerve to say that you should be ashamed of yourself of the way you act and the way you treat him. |
The chick even had the nerve to say that you should be ashamed of yourself of the way you act and the way you treat him.The sticky part about all of this is if she says something to her boyfriend about what the chick is saying it would ruin the relationship with one particular friend as well as it could endanger her life.( I guess the boyfriend would whip that ass lmao)My dear friend wants to know:
~would you tell your significant other?~ would you listen and take the persons advice?My opinion is that the chick is jealous.?Simple as that.?I wouldn?t pay anything she said any attention.?If you and your man are happy then continue to do you and don?t worry about what anyone else has to say.?I would also tell her that if she doesn?t have anything nice to say about the relationship then don?t say anything at all.?She isn?t much of a friend if all she can do is make negative remarks about the relationship.?So guys..what?s your thoughts? |
So guys..what?s your thoughts? |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 17 July 2008 )
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